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You owned up to what you did wrong, you changed it, so no more apologies for the past. (I am assuming you owned up to things to her, right?)


Yup, pretty much what i did during the month of January. If i do a mistake, i am usually the first to raise my hand and admit it. Somehow cannot keep it away from wife.

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Your d will grow up thinking she did not matter enough to you. That's a deep wound and no matter what w says to her, that's just a fact.


Never realized this fully until you guys drilled it into me. I agree totally. Wife might not know it now, but i dont want daughter's future life to be ruined because i was not there for her. I'll definitely keep this one as my highest priority.


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...