Originally Posted By: greenblue90
It's been almost a week and a half and things seem to be getting better, and better. That being said I am worried about a lot unresolved issues.

that's b/c there are unresolved issues. How will they get resolved?


I hate to be doing things, but things seems to be going too smoothly.

does "doing things" mean, addressing the issues? Things "going too smoothly"--meaning, b/c issues are being swept under the rug?? That way you avoid confronting the issues that need resolution. Oh...


It feels like some things may be being swept under the rug for now.

they are being ignored. And? (So, What are you going to do about that?)

Our sex life has been on hold, until the infection goes away. I also know I need to be patient once it clears. I just hate feeling like that infection may derail the good progress we were making. Oh well


You think by not confronting things, what will happen? Let's assume she somehow heals from this horrible infection (i can't recall ever cutting my h off for a UTI, btw...you make adjustments...geez)

then what? All will be well...I know you hope this. But honestly, doesn't a part of you already know you are delaying the inevitable by...delaying the work needed?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

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