18 Wheels and a Dozen Roses

[LearningPatience]

AJM, the only thing I can add to 25's take on your sitch is that I wish she'd have told me the same thing months ago! Please live *your* life as you need to without worrying too much how it will affect your H. He'll figure it out or he won't. If he does, you can work things out (if you want to) and if not, you're just that much further down the healing road.