STBX brought S17 home from work, so I never got the chance to take the box of stuff to her. I might later today, when he goes back for second shift. When she brought him home today, she had him ask me a question about census. It only lasted a couple minutes...but it got to me that she wouldn't ask me herself. I like when I control the no contact. I got over that quickly, but had to admit it here. I suppose I made it fairly clear the last time we spoke, that there isn't any point in her speaking to me.
Later I asked son if from now on when STBX or OM/their boss is going to drive him home and I am at home, for him to let me know. He asked why. I said "it's helps me plan my day and I don't want any uncomfortable situations".
It's odd that I really enjoy darkness, when I feel like I create it. That's something I will work on.
