Yes, I am sure that seeing that "poor me" routine everyday for years gets difficult. The Dr. gave it a huge name said I suffered from "Eeyore Syndrome". I thought she was joking wrote a me script and shoved me out the door. I hate pills but take them anyway.
The counseling has helped even if for a sounding board, but going to have to space the sessions some since my insurance [censored] and I pay out of pocket a ton. If it were marriage counseling I would gladly spend it plus some. She is still not to that point yet. Waiting patiently, seems like the convo's we have are very generic and about day to day stuff. But it beats the silence. So I am thankful for them....
