IMHO I agree with 25mlc. When you actively search for annulment of the M it does make it seem to your kids like they're "bastards" born out of wedlock. Have you talked to them about it?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.