Your W actions are hurting your feelings. To a woman this indicates that you are not secure enough in yourself. ie neediness and emotional weakness, which is a big turnoff.
If you want all the things you mentioned, the first step is going to have to be not needing them. As tough as that is, it is within your personal control.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
