In the last year, I've been more tuned into how life is a mirror reflecting us.
When my wife was less affectionate to me, I was less affectionate to her. Thing is, she was probably less affectionate to me because I was less affectionate to her... and so on.
We stress here that it is often important to "believe none of what you hear and only 50% of what we see."
25, I agree with you. The mirror is still reflecting. Denver, it is not what you said, it is what you do, that she will notice.
Say less, do more.
And remember that we do these things for US. Not for our M or R or spouses.
