Your W, was very honest and blunt about her thoughts and feelings. And she has every right to feel that way.
Yes, she does. And Denver has every right to say "And that doesn't work for me; sorry." Which he has done.
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I get the boundary. I get it. No one wants to live committed to someone who isn't committed to them.
However, your hard line is one that is not serving you well right now. In reaching your goal of reconciliation as well in reaching forgivness.
You are NOT showing unconditional love right now. You are not showing the "new" Denver it doesn't seem.
So, you "get" the boundary, but not him enforcing it, is that it? That makes no sense.
I do agree that he was wrong to go into her house.
Look, Denver, this "passive-aggressive" thing ain't working, not one bit. Whether you choose "passive" or a more aggressive strong stance, PICK ONE, and for God's sakes, STOP WITH THE CONVOS.
