I can see how the OM doing things for your S would just tear you apart. Like you've realized, too, it is probably better that than being mean to him.

I'm sure your W has regrets that she's suppressing at the moment. What is she going to do when things start to sour?

BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26