RNP - they feel utterly entitled to anything they want. They have felt worthless at their inner core for a long time [and no they didn't share this with us]. He feels superior to the OW, able to give her a good time, and not able to see that women who sleep with married men are pretty problematic.
Eventually it all comes crashing down around their ears, even if they go ahead and marry OP. I have seen this both on and off the boards. But as I am finding, by then all we feel is compassion for all the hurt and pain and grief. The utter pointless waste of their lives [and their money].
In the meantime we have grown up, and probably do not really want an emerging adolescent, although there are magnificent men and women here who take their broken spouses back.
