How to make progress???

[luvmyhubby]

I had my first appt with Jody Yesterday and then immediately implemented more drastic measures. My H stayed out late and said he was working but I did my thing and didnt call etc. I got a text after midnight that he would be home soon but I didnt respond to that either. He came home and washed his face and neck and then came to bed which indicates he has done something he shouldnt but I ignored this. Then I woke up and told him that I hoped he had a good day and that I know he worked really hard and was tired. I think this surprised him because he didnt turn his back like normal he layed next to me but I just a bit of distance. Then next thing I know he was spooning with me.. I am in a really great place right now and very happy with my current stance. We shall see what happens in our therapy session today with a non db coach and how the rest of my changes are taken. Regardless I will be just fine in fact i see myself differently today than i have in a long time and it feels really really good to acknowledge that I am strong, beautiful and capable of doing it on my own if I need to. I thank Jody for making me feel so good and uplifting me..

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W-34
H-31
D-5
S-8
M-11yr.
Tog.-13yr.