It's Over

[LearningPatience]

Wow! I'm sure you have some very conflicted feelings right now. I know it can be cathartic to get everything out like that, but both of you said things that are going to be hard to 'take back'.

I hope you take 25's advice and drop the rope/go dark. I wrote a letter to my W a week and a half ago (in my thread) and haven't spoken to her or seen her since. In my case, with the ongoing OM and cake-eating, it was the best thing I could have done for myself. The darkness has be *so* helpful to me, I think it would do the same for you. SS complicates that a bit, but I'm sure you could come up with a solution that minimizes contact with W.