It's hard to imagine right now, but people do come back from this. This is the time to DO NOTHING, and MAKE NO LIFE DECISIONS right now.
Just back off and take care of yourself.
You are going to get all kinds of advice. Don't act on it right now. You will need some time to put everything in perspective and to determine your own goals.
You will always be able to file, to leave, or to get back together. Take care of Denver right now.
