Hi Punkin, like you I am thankfull that I have a roof over my head, a good job, great family and friends. However, I too get mad when I see that H has been spending his money on himself and OW. Its selfish and irresponsible. But there is nothing we can do about it. My H has racked up about 15 - 20K in cc debt in two months. He's been on holiday with OW twice (going on his third this weekend).

Sometimes I think why would I want him back. I would be the one paying his debts off. Paying the debts for holidays he went with OW. Why would any sane person do that?


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11