You're right Lorie, it doesnt matter if he is or isnt with OW. I know this, you know this but it sure would make you feel better to know for sure, wouldnt it? I think the OW is the hardest part of MLC. The betrayal, the lost of trust, the lies, the emotional attachment, the physical acts......its all so painful.

I was doing so well up until a few days ago. I stopped "googling" her name. Then I started again. I dont know what Im looking for or hoping to see? All I see is this ugly person staring at me. I dont know what H sees in her? Ive shown her picture to my two close friends. They were like WTF? And their husbands said H had obviously lost his mind. Well they dont call it affair down for no reason. I did see that her profile got taken off their company website. I dont think that means anything though. Maybe she got fired? Ha! Wishful thinking on my part!

I havent looked at Hs bank account. I think because I know that it would hurt me alot to see what he's up to.

Is your H living with OW?


W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11