Divorcebusting.com  |  Contact      
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 36 of 39 1 2 34 35 36 37 38 39
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 13,511
Likes: 1
2
Member
Offline
Member
2
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 13,511
Likes: 1
^^^ What he said...

He wanted son's college money, and whether you were paid up for your insurance...gee, why not the food and rent too?

What will it take for you to wake up and get this?

You saw how many lawyers only to chicken out but I don't know why.
[u][color:#993399]
What are you afraid will happen, that isn't already happening?


The barbarian is at the door. Defend yourself.

If you are too...weak or whatever, to do it for yourself, then do right by your son. Geez...


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 876
R
rysmom Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
R
Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 876
i really dont need your negative reply .maybe you should change your pessimistic attitude.

Joined: May 2006
Posts: 1,557
B
Member
Offline
Member
B
Joined: May 2006
Posts: 1,557
Originally Posted By: rysmom
i really dont need your negative reply .maybe you should change your pessimistic attitude.


Are you serious? OMG!!!! OK,Keep on doing what you have been doing and see what happens.

Joined: Oct 2010
Posts: 6,810
S
Member
Offline
Member
S
Joined: Oct 2010
Posts: 6,810
Originally Posted By: rysmom
i really dont need your negative reply .maybe you should change your pessimistic attitude.


They're trying to HELP you, rysmom. Everyone has been, but you're not listening. Real friends don't just tell you what you want to hear.


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
Joined: Jun 2008
Posts: 12,602
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jun 2008
Posts: 12,602
Why on earth would it cost you $20,000 for a L? Are you and your H that wealthy? In any event, you need to get some kind of legal counsel especially since your H hasn't paid any income tax. You are also responsible for that. If you also earned money those years and didn't file, then you are responsible and might go to jail.

Forget about your H for a change. Get your own house in order first.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 13,511
Likes: 1
2
Member
Offline
Member
2
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 13,511
Likes: 1
Bond has an excellent point. As long as you are m, you are equally responsible for the taxes owed.

There is no such thing as the "innocent spouse" rule. You are on the hook too.

Yes, we know it's unfair. But you've been warned now, so....the ball is in your court.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 876
R
rysmom Offline OP
Member
OP Offline
Member
R
Joined: Jul 2007
Posts: 876
I paid my taxes we file separately.

Joined: Feb 2001
Posts: 10,805
Member
Offline
Member
Joined: Feb 2001
Posts: 10,805
Hi rys-

I'm the first person to look at the positive side of things, and the first to diss negativity.

That's not what you're getting here from your posters. They care about you. They want you to be happy. And they want you to be protected. They want you to get REALLY GOOD advice. Get of advice from various legal sources. There is always more than one option.


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 13,511
Likes: 1
2
Member
Offline
Member
2
Joined: Apr 2006
Posts: 13,511
Likes: 1
thing is, she has seen 3 lawyers already. She did not want to file.

Her h is saying things that reveal possible intentions that would damage her financially, and place her son's future at risk.

Not to mention the weirdness of the life ins question...

She has to protect herself and her son. Her h is, at best, spending too much, & diminishing the martial assets rapidly.

Those are assets that are partly hers and her son's...we are worried that rys is taking too long to protect herself b/c she's afraid of rocking the boat.

I fear the boat is sinking and you need to get to shore.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
Joined: Jun 2008
Posts: 12,602
M
Member
Offline
Member
M
Joined: Jun 2008
Posts: 12,602
Have you seen a L yet?


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
Page 36 of 39 1 2 34 35 36 37 38 39

Moderated by  Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5