He wanted son's college money, and whether you were paid up for your insurance...gee, why not the food and rent too?
What will it take for you to wake up and get this?
You saw how many lawyers only to chicken out but I don't know why. [u][color:#993399] What are you afraid will happen, that isn't already happening?
The barbarian is at the door. Defend yourself.
If you are too...weak or whatever, to do it for yourself, then do right by your son. Geez...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
Why on earth would it cost you $20,000 for a L? Are you and your H that wealthy? In any event, you need to get some kind of legal counsel especially since your H hasn't paid any income tax. You are also responsible for that. If you also earned money those years and didn't file, then you are responsible and might go to jail.
Forget about your H for a change. Get your own house in order first.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Bond has an excellent point. As long as you are m, you are equally responsible for the taxes owed.
There is no such thing as the "innocent spouse" rule. You are on the hook too.
Yes, we know it's unfair. But you've been warned now, so....the ball is in your court.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
I'm the first person to look at the positive side of things, and the first to diss negativity.
That's not what you're getting here from your posters. They care about you. They want you to be happy. And they want you to be protected. They want you to get REALLY GOOD advice. Get of advice from various legal sources. There is always more than one option.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
thing is, she has seen 3 lawyers already. She did not want to file.
Her h is saying things that reveal possible intentions that would damage her financially, and place her son's future at risk.
Not to mention the weirdness of the life ins question...
She has to protect herself and her son. Her h is, at best, spending too much, & diminishing the martial assets rapidly.
Those are assets that are partly hers and her son's...we are worried that rys is taking too long to protect herself b/c she's afraid of rocking the boat.
I fear the boat is sinking and you need to get to shore.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016