We are basically "pieced" but the pieces get a little raggedy every now and then so I come back for a "tune-up". I'd like to be part of a somewhat active thread for a while.
MZ, our Hs sound like they have a lot in common. I know it's so past shocking to find out one's M is so utterly different than one thought. My H is severely "challenged" when it comes to being forthcoming. I used to think it would be crucial for him to change that. Lately I realize how amazing it is that once in a while he will open up and often it's about something like you describe, that's just so sad that he had to carry such a burden for so long. This is the stuff of true intimacy and trust.
me: 57 H: 54 M: 18 y Affair over on Dday: 6/99 Never split-up but it was a hard road D: 38 GD:18 I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!
