I am truly trying to detach, but I am on a rollercoaster of emotions. The suddenness with which my W has cut me out has my head spinning. It is as if SHE has gone dark. Is this how a WAW deals with the split - out of signt, out of mind, out of picture?

The main problem is she has been depressed for a long time, and I am concerned about her. I don't know if she hiding out in a closet, balling her eyes out, or is out on the town living it up, happy that I am gone.

Trying to detach, but caught in a tumbler of emotion.

What to do?

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012