ooohweee what'sup wit that

[ninelives]

it soo good to see you still here 2step. Dont get me wrong, If I could wave a magic wand, I would hope that none of us would ever end up on this site, but since the wand is on the fritz, I simply mean that your wisdom is amazing.

And Im still blown away how selfless you wish those things for your Wife. Maybe if an OM wasnt involved in mine and the way they did it, I too could wish her happiness. But at this stage, its just not there. I know I can eventually forgive her, its just not coming yet. Ill know when that happens. IM not that angry anymore so I guess thats a step in the right direction.

It still amazes me how your wife is not involved with an OM but still refuses to see the changes in you and would rather live a very difficult life. I understand if there was abuse or alcholism or some other form where you were Nasty to her, but the things you have done , although not a hollywood story, are not the end of the world and able to be foregiven I would think.

Maybe time will be all she needs but in the meantime, 2step is an amazing catch for somebody.

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