Where the head goes, the heart will, eventually, follow.
You will NOT be "in love with her forever". I know this.
But you may miss what you once had, for a long time.
That's not the same. You do control your thought process about your w. You can take in new "data" to change the way you see her, b/c she has changed.
She is a different person now.
She MAY change back...and you'll know if she does. She may not.
So keep your head on straight and on track, and you really will, feel differently. IN TIME, my friend, in time.
((( hugs )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016