Am I on the right track?? Help please!

[liz_palmer]

Well last night and today has been the pits. I know, I know, take the good with the bad, that not every day will be a good day. But when they're bad, they're bad.

Around 8pm last night the OW called him on his cell phone while WE were watching television together in the family room. My laptop was sitting nearby so for kicks (ha! ha!) I looked at our phone usage online and found that he had been texting her since 5pm. All while we sat a couple feet from each other. So of course, my mood plummeted. I ended up going to bed first. He followed about an hour later.

Then this morning I woke up in a cruddy mood and ended up cleaning like a crazy person. Communication has been minimal today which adds stress/strain. Then, of course, OW calls around 2pm. They talk for about 5 minutes. All I hear is his side of the conversation - sounded like he was supposed to do something for her and she was reminding him about it. I acted like I didn't even notice when he was finished.

I knew they were still speaking but it seemed like it had calmed down. It's only been "in my face" for the last couple days. I think I'm just gonna keep doing what I've been doing along with the "as if" thing and act as if nothing has change or the calls don't bother me.

WHY ISNT ANYONE RESPONDING TO ANY OF MY POSTS? Surely someone out there has experienced this and has some advice.

Liz