KD, I do appreciate your comments, but the issue - at least on this forum - is not SS21's situation or future, but how to deal with W's increasingly indifferent attitude.
This morning I woke up, got my morning coffee and felt like I could not care any less if W stayed or left. I've had that sense before, but it was not very strong. But today...it was not anger, or sadness, or hurt. Just apathy toward our R. Tomorrow I might feel different; I don't know. I've read in other threads that if the LBS were to meet the WAS for the first time, without any history or warm fuzzy memories, they would probably not pursue a relationship.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
