Sounds like you had a great weekend! Keep that up and you are well on your way!
I have no idea what day I am on regarding dark, anymore. I could probably figure it out. As I told my W, who thinks that I don't want to talk to her (apparently I've made that clear), that my door is always open. I remain dark and continue my GAL. MY life will go on and it will get better. It is up to her to dump her garbage and see that I've not controlled her and I'm just being me and if she wants a piece of this... like before we got M... she's gonna have to step up and move towards.
If she ever does, that's up to her. But if she brings her controlling behaviour back to the table... I won't get caught up in it this time... I have a life to live...