It's tough Sparks (sorry I haven't checked in for a while).
W and I had a trip to Key West planned for our 4th anniversary last fall. Planned in the spring before everything went downhill. In the end, we still went on the trip (barely), mainly as friends. No real gift giving or acknowledgment, though, other than a generic card from me.
I guess what I'm saying is make the best of your day. Focus on the good memories you've had. It's an important day, but it's only a day.
Who knows, maybe *your* 4th anniversary will be a great one! Have some bar recommendations in Key West if you need them
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011