You will vacillate between anger, sadness, happiness and "I just don't give a damn!" It is up to you to determine how long you will stay in these stages. Sometimes the hardest is picking yourself up out of the negative stages and staying longer in the positive stages.
My H does not talk to nor text D16 everyday either. It is like he has just walked away and any little attention he gives her is a huge thing to him, like he's doing her a favor. What I really believe is that he can't reconcile all of this and he can't really face is one and only child. It is sad as they were so close, and she worshiped the ground he walked on. Now, she doesn't want to have anything to do with him. I think the LBS parents really struggle with anger more because of how we want more for our children. It is frustrating, pointless and weak on the MLCer to do and react to their children as they do.
Keep going to church and praying and finding joy in the little blessings God sends your way. Trust Him the most and follow His lead.
Blessings,
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
