Today is our 3rd wedding anniversary. Its been a pretty rough morning for me.

W has her last in-service work day at school before her summer begins. Since school daycare was already finished, I agreed to take off work today and take care of our S.

She came by to drop him off at 7 am. After talking briefly about some logistical matters, I gave her a cup of coffee for the road. As she was about to walk out, I told her Happy Anniversary. She gave me a hug. I told her that as difficult as times are now, I still have wonderful memories of this day. She agreed and then left.

I am blessed to have an amazing little boy and get to spend this day and evening him. However, I am still having a pretty emotional time right now.

Any words of advice from those that have gone through this?


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated