I still got lots of anger and hurt I cant seem to let go of. Im tired of my thoughts always going to my H when Im alone.
I thought about you this weekend while I was down near your neck of the woods.. I have been thinking...instead of trying so HARD to "let go", why not just try to live. Stop trying to "get over H", just live your life day by day, minute by minute.
IMHO, you need to feel everything that you are feeling but maybe you are trying to hard to rush or stop feeling the things that you are feeling.
Enjoy life the best you can. Limit your interactions with H and just take one day at a time. You can do this.
Let me remind you of a few things...
1) Your H's actions ARE NOT a reflection of YOU 2) Your life is YOUR responsibility 3) You do not need to answer or respond EVERYTIME H contacts you 4) Show your children the strength that you have by your actions.
So as WCW says...."disconnect" from your H. I have never seen you attempt a dark/dim approach maybe it is time you give this is a shot. Not for your H for YOURSELF!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
