I feel like I have the exact same problem with "reacting" to W. Since she moved back, I have been pretty good about it up until yesterday. I had a small (silent) reaction to her not wanting to go to the splash park with kids and I and it ended up with her moving all her stuff out of our bedroom and into the basement, which sucked me into a long R talk in which she told me she's still "done" and that she is only here for the kids. Now I feel like I'm back at square one.
Here's the point: Am I better off due to my reaction to W? Not at all...I'm in a much worse place. Why it happened doesn't matter one bit to her and me trying to justify my actions just made things worse. It all goes back to being right or being married.
If you guys get the chance to hop over to my thread in newcomers I could really use some help...I haven't had a 2x4 in a long time and I probably deserve one after this weekend.
BITS M: 35 W: 35 T14, M11 D9, S6 ILYBINILY: June 09 Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11 W came home: 3/17/11 EE: July 2012 Dropped the rope: Oct 2012 Piecing: April 2013 Not piecing: April 2014 Stuck.
