empowerment over, just had H pack his bags

[canadianMrs.]

Its interesting that after months of DBing, it took my mother to point out how big the changes in H are. My coach asked me what would I be seeing in H for me to see change. I said for him to put the kids and I before work/work friends. Yesterday he stopped over and asked me out for lunch. I asked him if he was going to be late for going to a ball game with his friends. He said he cancelled. He then spent after school with our boys and then went to see our daughter who is away with her class for a camping trip. Last night was family night. I was impressed, but it took my mom pointing out that this was huge, for me to realize I met a DB goal. How true you sometimes don't fully see the changes.
H also came over yesterday to say OW had contacted him. He told her once and for all they can never be together, no one would ever except them and how do you have a R like that. I was impressed he told me.