Nine - She pops in less often every day. I find limited exposure helps. We have not seen each other in 5 weeks and have spoken 5 times in that period. I posted this on another thread, but when we do speak now, I make sure to believe nothing of what she says. Her words and actions rarely matched over the last couple years and it's unlikely they ever will. When she talks to me now, I think of her words as Alphaghetti falling out of her mouth. Just a bunch of letters put together to make words - put together to make sentences that have all the value of a can of crappy pasta in a crappy sauce.
I now focus on her previous and current actions, just like we know they focus on our consistent actions. It makes it so much easier to see her reality and therefore what I can make mine.
