Do you "need" it to loosen up and refused to with him? What is up with this?
I would want to know that one thing...otherwise it'll come up. But don't be a jerk about it, ya know?
Also, while applauding his positives, which is good, why not refrain from noticing his little possible moves toward you-when they are vague or ambiguous, (at least not to him?)
IOW, Don't bother correcting the "your house" "our house"....
let HIM be the one to declare HIS wants vis a vis the family. Otherwise he's playing house at his convenience, saying the "right" things...and then going back to HIS place...
You are overtly reading into, and sharing with him, your hopes and doubts and fears about the R, which is R talk... and that is NOT the DB approach you said you were doing, is it? What happened to a little mystery?
I mean, am I missing something?
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