Thanks, jb. I am working on GAL as much as I can. Picked up a journal today so I can chronicle my goals and objectives, and journal as much as I can. I undergone some serious transformation since this nightmare began a couple of years ago, and will continue to do so. Looking forward to working on my list of goals, for myself as much as her.
Now I need time, and I hope to have some with her when I get home in early June. Being gone alot has not been good for her or the M. I only hope she will be around when I get back. My dejected persona is convinced she will be moved out when I get back.
Got to get the negative outlook in check, and start to think positive and forward. Not an easy transition, to say the least
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012