Originally Posted By: rysmom
My h told me the other day h has no money to pay taxes but when i look then i find out he is still looking to buy a bentley car. i dont want to file d but its the only way to protect me and my son.

Yes it is.


What should i do?

You just said it's what you have to do. You already know the answer. There's no way around the hard parts.


I know how shrewd h is he is probably planning his whole financial future secretly with ow i think i have to file.

Maybe....He has had a lot of time to do so.

this is going to be a very difficult week. i dont know how i will come up with $ for d. h should have to pay for it L said last time.


Yes it will be hard, but again, the L gave you a helpful answer...

I know the name of areally good L but it will probably cost at least 20,000 for me.


That sounds high for an uncontested divorce and property settlement. But I don't know how much wealth you are referring to.

Anyhow, Your h may have to pay anyhow, per the lawyer telling you. Besides, you have no protection now. So if he's planning on financially deserting you, if there's even the risk of leaving you and son in the lurch, then $20k is what it costs.

You are not helpless. You will survive this.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
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