when you let your lawyer handle these matters, they will lessen.
I wish you had a tape recording of that call b/c she could actually LOSE custody if a judge heard that. IT's the type of behavior courts FROWN UPON HEAVILY...
she's blown it. She is openly using the d as leverage to get what she wants and rubbing your face in it. NO JUDGE IN ANY STATE will be okay with that.
Don't you dare back off with the lawyer BUT don't engage with her. Tell her ONCE (actually you may have to repeat it a lot, let it become your mantra to sink in with her) that
"W, you took our daughter away from me AND now you are using our d as leverage against me. This is why I have a lawyer."
You left me no choice.
Sorry myk, it's a real bummer. But she cannot stay on this course UNLESS YOU LET HER...she will lose most of these issues AS LONG AS YOU KEEP THE L...
I am concerned you think having a L has made things worse. That's like saying lifting your hands to fend off blows when getting beaten up, is somehow wrong. It's not. She really has left you no choice.
Hang in there. IT really will get better. I think her call to you means her own L doesn't think she has such a great case and may have suggested "trying" to work it out with you. Her way of doing that, was what you saw. IT's SO WRONG of her.
((( )))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
