Thanks tipper! I am very happy that H and I are progressing together. I know that it would have much easier to cut and run rather than stay married.
I also know that I could not MAKE H do anything different, and I was in a position that I waited. While waiting I rediscovered who I was, the person that H fell in love with rather than the person I had become by trying to be who I thought H wanted me to be. Back to grass roots for me.
Having a great weekend with family, horses, friends, and H.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.