Something that has really been bugging me is that a few months before H and I seperated we had a fight and he was obviously depressed. After we made up he brought his laptop in our bedroom and announced that he figured out what was wrong with him. He said that he thought he was going through MLC. I kind of laughed it off.

However, after we seperated I brought it up again. He kind of laughed and said well I did buy a sports car.

What does it mean if H is aware that he is going through MLC? Shouldnt he want to put a stop to it or get treatment? And if he is aware and obviously did a bit of reading then why is he doing all the stupid things they do - affair, spending money, leaving family, dressing like a teenager, drinking alcohol, lying?

W - 31
H - 33
Married - 7 years
Together - 10 yrs
Kids - S 3yrs old
Separated - 27/03/11
OW - 10/04/11