I think you're one of them. Obviously not all are reconciled and some simply remain in legal limbo forever.
But some of that 1/3, do reconcile. And something like 15% of those who divorce, remarry their former spouses...it happens
I don't say this to give or encourage false hope. It is what it is.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016