Telemark, I find it strange about WAW's ...so bear with me when I say this....I read on these boards about a WAW bringing up things that happened years ago....So I will use my W as an example.....I am the type of person that if you and I have a disagreement and you make me mad.....Several days, hours, minutes, what ever, you come to me and say I really did not mean that and this is why I said it and I apoligize....It then puts the burden back on me...I have to decide if I want to forgive you or not....Now for me...if I make the decision to forgive you...I will never bring it up again...ever...now as far as my W...things that have happened 2o years ago that she accepted my apology for...they are being brought back up.....its sometimes so bad that she feels like it just happed to her....now I would like to know are there any men out there that do this....I am just wondering and thinking outloud....if she forgave me 20 years ago why is she bringing back up...does she really not know how to forgive.....its a learning process going through this D for sure.....just my two cents worth...Scott
