Originally Posted By: HerbGarden
Understandably, my wife is realy sensitive to the tone of my voice and how I respond in general.

Newsflash...everyone is sensitive to that. Not unique to your w.

I have a tendency to forget my past outbursts, and my wife is quick to remind me.
B/c they still hurt. And apologies help a lot, but they do not erase the hurt. Esp when the same damn thing happens again. Kind of makes the whole apology simply part of your script. Change, NOW, or live alone the rest of your life.

I'm optimistic that I can get my relationship back on track.

Thanks.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change