I'm lost. need help with WAW

[25yearsmlc]

Idk, I have made the road home clear in my text yesterday,

NO, sorry but you did not make that clear. I got the opposite out of that, when I read it as if I were her. At best, it's unclear.


I suppose I am trying to let her know I am getting on with my life. Should of been actions, not words.........

yes it should Have been, and done in an upbeat happy way, as if you are NOT GLOATING but simply looking forward to a good life, which has nothing good or bad, to do with her. She's simply not a factor, as opposed to being an obstacle you are trying to get around AND telling her that) It's not to come out of your mouth vis a vis her. Ever. No need. Do you go up to your HS nemesis on the street to tell him you are "over him and don't care AT ALL about the time he hit you"...?
? No, it would look as if the opposite were true and it gives your HS enemy way too much power over your life now. That's what you are doing with your w, and kind of rubbing her face in it while undermining it too. Make sense?

need to get clear, [b]I do love her and want her, I suppose I am trying to tell myself to move on.[/b]

I'm not sure what worked and what didn't. So I'll have to think about that. But if you want to get the ^^^ clear to her, those texts and words didn't.

thanks again 25, I need to go back to what worked and stick to it. As db says though, easier said than done. but will do it now, anyway, time 4 another beer LOL

good luck