my h and son gave me necklace

[25yearsmlc]

then see and hire a L. This isn't complicated as far as what to do. It concerns me that you've seen THREE and yet...what? They frightened you? They said you'd have to take action?

DBing does say you must protect yourself (oh, AND YOUR SON!) [i]Put your son first and the way will be clearer for you.[/i]

You've been paralyzed too long. Maybe you need to step way back-to see more clearly that the fear of losing your h (which has actually, sorry to say, happened)

does not outweigh your love of your son.

It's time. Protect yourself.

Who knows? Maybe your h will wake up. Your behavior the past few years has not worked. That's something we do know.

What do you really truly have to lose? (in case you don't know, the answer is nothing).

Hire a L. I don't see another rational choice here. Do you?