Have you not gotten one or consulted a L at all yet? You have to. These red flags are red flags.
Consulting a L should not frighten you. Knowledges is power and can be very empowering. Like what if you find out that you are going to be fine financially by simply getting a court order payment so you don't have to wait and hope H sends it. It can be an automatic allotment from his pay.
I don't get why you seem to think just meeting a Lawyer requires any follow up action on your end--it MIGHT but you have to get information first and stop worrying/guessing/obsessing....
The life insurance question would freak me out too.
See a L asap. What else can I say?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
