Yesterday i text h and asked him to bring my $ for the past 2 wks because he hasnt paid me since then. He hasnt been resoponding to my text request so i called him and he answered. i havent spoken to him in a couple of weeks. i asked him how his mother was and he asked how my father was because my father had a minor heart attack 2 weeds ago. he told me h got son new sneakers. He said he had these new vitamins that he's selling now and would bring me when he came over. i said ok thanks. i said i will be thinking of your father this weekend (because his father loved memorial day because he was in air force for 30 yrs and was a sargent.) He said he needs to come up with $30,000 or we could lose the other house that we inherited. Thid got me angry and worried but i tried not to show it. he asked if i had money from sons college savings acct to pay it. I wanted to say why dont you sell one of your cars and pay it. he has 2 cars and a 25000 motorcyle. we ended call on a high note. H came to pick son up after that. I went out to his car to say hi and get $ h was on phone. he didnt even look happy to see me which really hurt cuz we hv not seen each other in 7 mos.It felt like he was another person that i didnt know anymore and it made me sad. we use to love to see each other even at the end of a work day. i stood at the car door as my son got in and h continued on business call so i asked son to bring in $ when h was done. i didnt want h to feel pressured with me standing there so i went back in house. son brought $ and vitamins in when h finished phone call. I am very concerned we are going to lose the other house. I think im going to have to go see a lawyer next week. I could end up losing a lot financially if h careless spending habits continue. H dropped son off later and i called him and said im afraid im going to lose my house. i already lost my h and i dont want to lose my house too. h said im taking care of the bills dont worry.. Earlier h asked me if mortgage, health ins, and life ins was paid. i said yes. i thought it was odd and scary that he asked about our life ins policies he never did before. i was going to tell him my son is the beneficiary on my policy now, h use to be. if hes desperate for $ who knows what h and ow are thinking
