New,

I do understand the cause of your 'low'. Yesterday i babysat my two oldest grands who live in the town next to where XH lives, and that in itself put me into a funk. Just the knowledge he is 'in the vicinity'. Glad to be home and 80 miles away.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011