I can't really say anything to you that the others haven't already said. You are moving in the right direction. I applaud your boundaries set and your efforts to GAL.
You have to decide what works best for You, just don't delude yourself with old trusts and enablements. For some of us, the best answer is to 'go dark'. You might give that another, longer try.
I did notice in your last post that you said you were in a tough position as you 'still waiting' for him to do various things. That is an illusion. An expectation. A belief in what he SAYS he is going to do. STOP WAITING. It is holding you back.
