I'm lost. need help with WAW

[GAL Man]

Thanks for checking out my sit 25, and your constructive comments

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I just began reading your original thread.

It's So long I had to stop reading to quickly comment on a few things. Your first letter to her identified things with HER and her issues that caused the problems and the 2nd letter suggested that you "both" had issues in communicating, but I didn't see a lot about what YOU own as your role in this (maybe not anything in that first letter)....

Yes, In the first letter I also pointed out where I felt I had gone wrong, I even went further when we had our first indepth discussion (where I basically said we had never had a convo like this before where we talked of the fundemantal issues). W response then was that I was a good guy, she had been a bitch to me and couldn't explain why, just that she felt I talk down to her a times, which my response was well why didn't you tell me when I was doing these things. I am big enough to admit I had/have faults and have told her this. I know now so much more though after reading db/dr a few times

So now I see some 180s you listed, good. Are there any that deal with how your relate to her?

This one is puzzeling me tbh. I have been using LRT for 4 weeks now, but as I have been doing it a while is this now a "more of the same" behaviour? or do I carry on with LRT? Obviously in the M I didn't tell her enough that I loved her, or put a x at the end of a text and so on, do I do this now, but LRT seems to be showing something

Why do you keep enabling the break up and moving out?

IDK, I think it was to do LRT as I hadn't got the books then, in hindsight I should have tried to delay her moving out to do some 180's, but didn't know much about them then. Plus I was also so unhappy with the R that I needed some space I suppose! Plus by giving her the deposit showed I cared for her feelings and appreciated she was not sure about things and needed space?

That's all I have from the first thing you posted. It is long. That's fine. But that's all I have for now.

Thanks again 25