Now what do I do.

I inadvertently caught W with OM. She says she is sorry, that it is over. That he was in town and that his GF was dying. Vital organs shutting down, etc... That he was freaking out and just needed to talk to someone.

Unbelievable that this guy is married, has a GF here in town and is involved with W.

This is like a nightmare that won’t stop.

He then sends me an email saying that he gives me his word that he will not see nor communicate with W anymore - please tell her he sent this to me so she knows as well.

He is sorry to have caused me and my family any pain or suffering.

I was not convinced. In fact because of my curiosity I did a search on the internet based on his email id. I can’t believe what I found. He is cruising several internet sites as well as adult Web Cam Sites looking for what he calls BBW women.

Not sure W is involved or not with the web cam stuff.

This OM seems to be a sex freak.

After what I have found, I am not convinced they are no longer communicating at the very least.

I am ready to send him an email back and let him know that I am will expose him to his wife and work if he keeps trying to communicate with W. I know who he is and who he works for from what I found back in February.

I am working real hard on greenblue90's advice. But this is freaking me out. It is harder than I thought.

I am desperately in need of direction, support, advice and help...

It would be very much appreciated. To those who have responded thank you very much... You have been a big help.