Thanks for all your response's much appreciated.

I sent her the message via text this afternoon, but before I did I had a long hard think about it, and the main point was right at the beginning (well 2 weeks after) when she was preparing to move out and wanted me to give her the £1200 deposit. I said then that I couldn't make her stay or leave, she needed to do what was right for her, W needed to make her own choice and that I was doing this for her and would give her the deposit.

Also the point of sending it is to say I am giving her time and space to think, take stock and figure things out. I will be getting on with my life, I will not be chasing and that she knows where I am but not indefinitely.


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more