I agree completely with IAP, and I guess that was my too subtle point. Giving my WAW that letter was a mistake, as I have given her what she wants. She did not hear any of the kind words in the letter, all she heard was "you are free to go". And she is gone.

I am not sure if my WAW is in the fog at this point. Her clarity was pretty firm. No idea what the future holds, but my hopes are fading fast.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012